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Monday, March 29, 2021

FRIENDS FOREVER First and Second year

 

It might be said that we make friends by chance but to me, a friend is just someone who has always been in your unconscious suddenly appearing and not just the unconscious friend but also the person with who you may spend the rest of your life with.

"We choose not randomly each other .We choose only those that already exist in our subconscious"
Freud

Is it good to have friends . Well it depends on the type of friend. There are all types. Those friends who have power , those who know things,


What draws people together as friends?

  1. Common interests. This probably ties us closer to our friends than many would like to admit. When our interests diverge and we can find nothing to enjoy jointly, time spent together tends to rapidly diminish. Not that we can't still care deeply about friends with whom we no longer share common interests, but it's probably uncommon for such friends to interact on a regular basis.
  2. History. Nothing ties people together, even people with little in common, than having gone through the same difficult experience. As the sole glue to keep friendships whole in the long run, however, it often dries, cracks, and ultimately fails.
  3. Common values. Though not necessarily enough to create a friendship, if values are too divergent, it's difficult for a friendship to thrive.
  4. Equality. If one friend needs the support of the other on a consistent basis such that the person depended upon receives no benefit other than the opportunity to support and encourage, while the relationship may be significant and valuable, it can't be said to define a true friendship.

What makes a friend worthy of the name?

  1. A commitment to your happiness. A true friend is consistently willing to put your happiness before your friendship. It's said that "good advice grates on the ear," but a true friend won't refrain from telling you something you don't want to hear, something that may even risk fracturing the friendship, if hearing it lies in your best interest. A true friend will not lack the mercy to correct you when you're wrong. A true friend will confront you with your drinking problem as quickly as inform you about a malignant-looking skin lesion on your back that you can't see yourself.
  2. Not asking you to place the friendship before your principles. A true friend won't ask you to compromise your principles in the name of your friendship or anything else. Ever.
  3. A good influence. A true friend inspires you to live up to your best potential, not to indulge your basest drives.

 There is an extra factor, an attraction similar to that which draws people together romantically, that cements friends together irrevocably, often immediately, for no reason either person can identify. 

!, Do you believe friends already exist in your subconscious waiting to meet you

2. Can life be led without many friends

3. What kind of person can never be a friend

4.The best friendship is to offer the hand of friendship to all citizens. Why is this important or not important

5.The greatest friendship is to yourself. Agree?

6. Is there a friendship between different species?

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